Obviously when I tell you anything about my clients, I do so without revealing who they are.
I have to tell you this….its soooo amazing! I had a very elderly client coming to see me. He 1st saw me in Westbourne at a flat I was at. Then I didn’t see him for a couple of years. He then appeared again…he’d had a heart attack and was back well enough to get out and about.
He saw me for a couple of years until he made a massive mistake that stopped him being able to come and see me again. The same as a lot of married couples…his partner had gone off sex a long time ago meaning he had to sort himself out. She had accepted that he had his separate room where he kept all his bits to excite him but the same as happens to all you fellas…it gets boring on your own.
99% of married fellas who come to see me would much rather be doing it with their partners but they are respectful to their partner and don’t try to force it on them…they sort themselves out. So that’s when us escorts come into the equation as we know. Different men have different ways of enjoying it with an escort to make it not feel sordid because why does it have to be classed as that!
His way was he liked to tell me he loved me. (I have clients who like me to tell them i love them when coming! I have clients who bring me a pressie like flowers, bottle of wine, box of choccies…even a packet of biscuits LOL They do this so it feels like the real girlfriend experience and not as I said… sordid.
Unfortunately he was at home and gave me a phone call to book. As he rang off he said he loved me as he always does. Well big oooops…his partner had come in the room and heard! As you can imagine all hell broke loose! He thought maybe this was an opertunity to get her to accept that’s what he needs to do to sort his needs but it didn’t work out that way! So he wasn’t allowed to see me any more at all! It made him very sad when this happened. He would ring me now and then just to say hello …tell me how much he missed coming to see me and how sad he was…he said he had been drinking more to take away the sadness.
Eventually I didn’t hear from him and 2-3 years had gone by and no more phone calls so I thought that must be it especially as he hadn’t been well for year!. It was only just before this xmas that I had said to a client that I had a lovely old fella who used to see me but I hadn’t heard from him for sooo long that I think he definately must have popped his clogs. Its sad because I never get to know for sure…obviously I can’t phone them at all EVER!
Well you could’ve knocked me down with a feather….I had a message on my answer phone and it was him!!! Wowser he was still alive! Unfortunately his partner had gone over the rainbow bridge and his silver lining was that he could see me again…he’d been starved of affection and thought he was never going to get to see me ever again but his life suddenly took a 180 degree unexpected turn! So bless him he’s got a silver lining to the events…and yes…bless him…he can have some pleasure in his life again.
I know it probably sounds bad by some peoples standards that he was being disloyal to his partner but I now know from doing this work for so long that it makes a massive difference to men especially being in a loveless relationship! Some guys will class it as just having a brother and sister relationship. They still love their partner but not the same way if there’s not that closeness.
Though the years I have noticed that every fella no matter how loyal, will have a breaking point. For some it might be 3-6months or for others it could be years! An elderly client who saw me for the last years of his life, it was 12 years! I decided in the end that she didn’t want it but he did and we’re all a long time dead so he came to see me. He used to say the tune ‘I’m in heaven’ came to his mind awww! I have a client who’d only ever been romarically with his wife ever…but she died, he was devastated…he thought that was it he’d never have any happiness in his life again but he finally plucked up the courage and made the step of calling me …quite a long time after she had gone. I now make him very happy like he never thought he would feel again bless him!
I know I get paid but the icing on the cake is being able to make men feel that happiness again!